Voting remain is equally spiffing if you’re dead sure we’re not sleepwalking into a dictatorship with a thin veneer of democracy. I’m not saying the ‘other side’ is any better..
It used to be said, more so in the past, that families shouldn’t talk about ‘politics’ because it can divide a family. Break up the natural unity of a family, a community even..replacing it with ideas of ‘false’ unity..of ideas. Now who would want to be doing that?

I like Dolly Parton’s quote about growing up “We didn’t know we were poor till somebody came and told us”

It’s important to talk but let it not just be solely to defend a political position. Admirable though that can be at times.