it harms no one ....and may actually enrich the maker ,in that it has some significance.....apart from its neg conotations for some, hey live and let live..(apart from new agers and pseudopagans) heheh only jesting...honest cheers MM
Of course you're right, and I suppose that if it came down to it, I wouldn't disturb it at all (cos I'm a big softy anyway!)
But what I really meant was that I think the symbolism would be irrelevant once the person has left it anyway, so wouldn't make any difference if it was destroyed or not! They'd know nothing about it - unless you're gonna go and grass me up... ;o) Arf!