At least that's what Jah Wobble says (Dreadlock Don't Deal In Wedlock). My own views are near, but not identicle. TracEye & myself aren't married (but might as well be!).
I must admit it took me three times to get it right. The first was my High School Sweetheart, my second died in a car accident and my Lowell is the love of my life ;-) It was no sacrifice to marry him. Of couse we've learned to kiss the hag a bit too!