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When T and I first got involved with this site about 7 years back, there were a lot of great contributors - Moth, Jane, Tom Four Winds, The Eternal, Tombo, Paulo, PeteG, etc. - who now seem to be gone (Treaclechops RIP). Not that there aren't some equally good contributors now :) - but even people like Rhiannon seem less visible

I love the sites section and usually check back with the forum every six months but can only last a week or two because of all the squabbling and rude behaviour. Honestly some people! I think late night booze probably has a lot to do with it - and maybe not getting out enough. I don't know but I assume that many of the contributors mentioned above aren't around for a similar reason. I know it's best to ignore it but somehow you get dragged into reading it and then feel rather jaded!

The TMA Eds seem as ever to do a very good job - voluntarily and mainly unappreciated as far as I can see - as does owner JC and programmer Holy McGrail.

So I am off again - not in a huff or as a statement as I don't post enough for that and I will probably check in six months for another round. But just to add my voice to the pleas to:

- keep on topic
- don't do massive quotes in your replies
- don't take things too personally
- appreciate what is here. It's amazing
- but mainly, stop being RUDE -

It's very boring reading!

N

nix wrote:
- don't take things too personally
Especially this.

Your list is a very good list!

"appreciate what is here. It's amazing" is what keeps me sticking about, on and off. It really is such a wealth of information, stuff that's nowhere else really. And created through the efforts of so many people, all interested in the same thing.

The forum's a bit of a sideshow. But it's not always so melodramatic. It's a bit cyclical isn't it. Like sunspots. Maybe it's time for a lull.

see you in six months then :)
(and thanks for the vote of confidence)

nix wrote:
When T and I first got involved with this site about 7 years back, there were a lot of great contributors - Moth, Jane, Tom Four Winds, The Eternal, Tombo, Paulo, PeteG, etc. - who now seem to be gone (Treaclechops RIP). Not that there aren't some equally good contributors now :) - but even people like Rhiannon seem less visible

I love the sites section and usually check back with the forum every six months but can only last a week or two because of all the squabbling and rude behaviour. Honestly some people! I think late night booze probably has a lot to do with it - and maybe not getting out enough. I don't know but I assume that many of the contributors mentioned above aren't around for a similar reason. I know it's best to ignore it but somehow you get dragged into reading it and then feel rather jaded!

The TMA Eds seem as ever to do a very good job - voluntarily and mainly unappreciated as far as I can see - as does owner JC and programmer Holy McGrail.

So I am off again - not in a huff or as a statement as I don't post enough for that and I will probably check in six months for another round. But just to add my voice to the pleas to:

- keep on topic
- don't do massive quotes in your replies
- don't take things too personally
- appreciate what is here. It's amazing
- but mainly, stop being RUDE -

It's very boring reading!

N

Well said. We did used to have good conversation and the occasional disagreement but of late it has got totally out of hand, possibly why others, as well as myself, only look in and don't bother posting anymore.

M Moth

I'm still around, just not got much to say!!!

love

Moth

To be fair not all humans will behave 'appropriately' if they feel passionately enough about something... this isn't a vicar's tea party, after all. However we musn't lose sight of the fact that Mr Cope funds TMA as a serious attempt to collate knowledge and understanding of what - in many respects - is a fast disappearing past world which, according to viewpoint, may still hold many lessons for us nowadays. Does the Christian or Islamic (etc) worldview possess greater insight than the Bronze Age or Neolithic? I would suggest not, but obviously open to debate.

I post with the knowledge - anticipation, in fact - that some will think what I do is not the best. No shit Sherlock. Exactly. There are no rules.... we are not professionals. However what better way to react than to go out there and post how you think it should be done? Don't slag off the person... use him/her as inspiration. Up the ante every time. Then eveyone's a winner. Particularly the sites themselves. Which is what it is all about, I think.

As my sainted mother used to say, "To get a letter, write a letter." Just ignore the few actual instances of squabbling and pitch in with your valuable contributions. Help us set a tone, so to speak.

Please?

Hi nix,

I'm not gone, just taking a back seat. There has been a lot of bickering and bad feeling on the forum. I can't claim innocence in this, as I did get involved now and again, putting in my two-penneth.

After looking back at some of the post I got involved with, especially my contributions, some of which I am not proud of, I decided to try to avoid the confrontations as much as possible by keeping away. Some of what I posted I believed in, where I thought others were being badly done to. As for people having a go at me, well, that's fair enough, as far as I am concerned, as I can take it. Some people were banned. Some bans I agree with, some I don't, as I think there were ulterior motives. That's just my view, based on what was going on at the time between people.

The forum has changed. That's a fact, if you compare it the earlier times. I suppose that it's evolved the way most internet forums do, i.e. they deteriorate from sharing views and info into arguments. That's the way of life and relationships, which is what this is: a relationship between lots of people.

I think that there are a few people who deliberately try to cause arguments, but the majority could get on, if left to.

Here's to the future,
TE.