I don't give myself any labels, I am many things though, Father, Husband,
Son, maybe a modern antiqurian, and sometimes a postman but these are labels given to me. I just deliver the mail but really don't see myself as a postman. Giving oneself a label doesn't unite people as much as it separate them. Imagine if all people kept their religous feelings to them selves. Instead of saying I'm a catholic or Moslem or Pagan can't we just say I'm a middle aged man