I cant confirm 100% that this standing stone is gone but im 95% sure. I had a good root around looking for it and its location according to GPS is between a ringfort that is completely overgrown or a gravel / sandpit that has been opened for the restoration works on Aherlow Castle. There is a new road into the castle which isnt shown on the map.
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