I suspect they would look at what you have to say with horror.
"You want them to grow up starving? What kind of monster are you????"
But let's not get too rosy eyed about what 'cultural values' usually ential.
Those 'values' are ususally edicts of some sort made by (the dominant) males and usually mean a whole heap of tough shit for the females.
Nine children may be born and somoene will decide four have to die, and I guarantee you no woman will 'wish' any of those to be hers.
Children that may even have been born out of rape (incestuous rape is one of the 'cultural values' I read about in Achebe's novel, and I had not a jot of respect for that at all - am I supposed to?).
I just find it bizzare that whatever the reasons, some of us find it easier to objectify slaughter and cannibalism etc if it's something 'they' do.
It's not a good idea, we can't change it or ever correct it but just feeling a little sick to your stomach is one of the things that keeps us human IMO.
Unless of course we are tainted by 'philosophy' and have the whole humanity thing wrong, but that's another story.
:-)
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