i find your reply and hand of dave's really interesting. however, i won't attempt to reply intellegently as i'm pissed. however, i do find it interesting that few things drive people to such passionate extremes as belief. or maybe the threat to their belief. really anything from a football team to the method of preparing and cooking a vegetable. the way to clean a house or raise a child. whether you're a spaceman 3 or harry connick junior fan (or both and 'no one' understands you).

seems to me that that the most misleading thing in life is that the words difficult and easy usually mean the oppposite of each other.