Hi there Vix
My blogs about Aberdeenshire are here. You might find some interesting stuff among this lot, and certainly about what might be do-able in a day.
Hot stuff in Aberdeenshire: the pleasure and the pain:
http://www.themodernantiquarian.com/post/48981/weblog/
Hot stuff in Aberdeenshire: fried brain overload:
http://www.themodernantiquarian.com/post/48971/weblog/
Hot stuff in Aberdeenshire: stone-baked:
http://www.themodernantiquarian.com/post/48959/weblog/
You asked ‘Where to stay?’ We stayed at the Rothie Inn, a pub in Rothiemay I think it was. Very central to many sites.
You asked ‘is there anything I REALLY SHOULDN'T MISS?’ Sunhoney, Sunhoney, Sunhoney!!!!
You asked ‘The best site to spend the solstice?” Easter Arquoithies (can’t spell it!) or Sunhoney! More advice coming from Moth shortly…
Oooh you're going to have SUCH a fab time. Happy planning!
J
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