nigelswift wrote:
... its the failure to recognise the dichotomy that has made consensus impossible as ettiquette on one can't be applied to the other and vice versa.
Yes. Exactly that, thanks Nigel. Accept the dichotomy and all becomes cushty.
[I'm conscious that this general agreement isn't addressing the concerns of those who feel that it is direspectful to set foot on any kind of funerary monument. As I said earlier, this isn't my view and I certainly intend no disrespect if I do so.]