I think you have missed my point and irony.
I do think everyone has the right to be there for whatever reason. As I said at the end of my post I have nothing against Christians except when they try to, inadvertantly or not, ram the word of the lord into your ears.
I have nothing against old ladies, it was irony, wit, call it what you will. There were lots of them in hats and it reminded me of Songs of Praise when Thora Hird used to present it.
As for brass bands at hand-fasting ceremonies that would just be daft!
Hope this has clarified some points.