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Hi Tiompan, I feel partly to blame for all this and therefore with goodwill to those I respect on this forum, am throwing in the towel with some relief, and not about the latest debacle which is so surreal ;) ;)

The reason why Roy left is because he cannot stand the aggressive behaviour on his thread; personally I would have closed it long ago but then.......... But I feel I do have to say something because a reply directed at me by Evergreen Dazed - which I did take note of but then refused to be drawn into an argument by the latter’s somewhat vindictive reply - my mistake ;). For a long time I have supported TMA because I hate conflict, aggressive behaviour and cruelty but no more! These things I am quite happy to fight in the real world, where real cruelty applies to both humans and animals, which seem so much more important than the written cruelty on this forum, and the need for people to score points – for Christ’s sake what is all that about??

I am fond of many people on TMA, you included tiompan, and in addressing this to you should not be taken in any form and shape as criticism of you, but an indication that the same principal that made me leave Heritage Action also holds firm and true here. So I shall no longer be posting any more, whether it be news, links or heaven forbid having to face saying something on the forum. I really do give up, and will turn my mind to the real world ;)

Moss
Love to those I know and admire xxx

p.s. Doubt if you will get rid of Littlestone so easily by the way - those who choose to dislike him so much will find he is much more of a fighter than I am...

http://www.themodernantiquarian.com/forum/?thread=68276&message=867776

Hi Moss , and thanks for the explanation , which is helpful . I don't understand why you feel “partly to blame “ and assume the recent debacle wasn't in reference to the Trethevy thread , which apart from a small diversion wasn't particularly bad in the aggressive /rudeness stakes compared to some more recent examples whilst most of it was full of informative constructive criticism . If Roy thought so , fair enough but having read all the post on this thread I don't feel that there was anything that matches some of the abuse others have received here in the past . The source of EDG 's highlighted post , which I don't believe was in that abusive category , was
a comment of Roy's that I picked up on “Others only think differently George because they have not researched the quoit correctly. “ Although this was never answered directly an indirect explanation from Roy today was “You do it by firstly not believing what you are always told by your peers if something doesn't appear to be right. One 'expert' after another copies each others work because they are lazy and don't even attempt to see it differently yet become icons in the archaeological world and much respected. Open your eyes, look for alternatives and don't be afraid to break the mould. We amateurs only have our eyes, brains and downright common sense compared to what the professional has at their disposal. “ This suggests that anyone who has a different view from Roy's or an “expert “ (always used pejoratively and in quotes ) have not used their eyes ,brains ,common sense ,are lazy etc . That attitude is what annoyed EDG .
As you can imagine I don't think you should leave so won't embarrass you with exhortations to stay just hope you reconsider after a break .