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goffik wrote:
Pretty sure that's what I said RE "how to delete your account". Dunno what you mean about the loons, S! :D

The only people able to see your account are those who you allow! I'm not used to sticking up for FB but that's the idea of "Friends" - add them if you know them, reject them if you don't! :) Or delete them if you accept them then change your mind...

The only problem I had was some lunatic from [insert location-based megalithic blog name here] pretending to be someone I know and commenting on photos of my very young son. That was why I removed myself initially. Otherwise, it really is just people I know and like.

The marketing is an interesting aspect of FB though - removing someone from your "Friends" list is known as "de-friending", which soulds rather terminal to me. People take it REALLY personally! I couldn't give a monkeys, and certainly don't see it as a reflection of my real world relationships with people. A bit of perspective is what's required with these things.

Things like this make me realise that Facebook has a positive side:
http://www.themodernantiquarian.com/post/96608/news/golden_cap.html#comment5967

It's not *all* people moaning about being stuck at airports or neighbours playing music loudly at inconvenient times. ;)

G x

goffik wrote:
The only people able to see your account are those who you allow! I'm not used to sticking up for FB but that's the idea of "Friends" - add them if you know them, reject them if you don't! :) Or delete them if you accept them then change your mind...

G x

This is what I found really odd Goff that FB were the one pushing 'friends' onto me when they hadn't been requested to. On one occasion an actual real friend of mine was mentioned and someone I email anyway. I asked him if he had asked on FB to be my friend and he hadn't. That's not right in my book.