Hi
scattered my dad's ashes a few months ago with these words:

We recognise that the measure of a man is not determined by his show of outward strength or the volume of his voice or the thunder of his actions. It is to be seen in the strength of his commitments, the genuineness of his friendships, the sincerity of his purpose, the quiet courage of his convictions, his capacity to suffer, and his willingness to continue to grow up.

Also said some private words.

Try WB Yeats also

Cheers,

Simon