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I'm sure that slowing down and getting the old brainwaves into a certain calmer rhythm is essential. We are all different and not everyone likes a long walk or is able to walk over rough ground.

Consider Person A who dashes from one megalithic site to another. He jumps out, bangs away with his camera, consults his list of targets, zooms off, jumps out, bangs away, zooms off ... OK he may get to a dozen sites in a day, but has he really looked at any of them? He is unlikely to have had a "spiritual" experience in his rushed day and in his memory, all the sites have become jumbled together - he doesn't know them at all.

Consider Person B who takes a sketch pad and maybe a box of paints. She wanders around the site and looks at it from all angles. She looks at the light and the weather and the background landscape. She chooses her position with care and then unhurriedly begins to draw. Now it is a truism that when you draw something you really look at it with an intensity that cannot be matched by any other activity. You really look at it. At the end of the day, she knows that site intimately and has established a profound relationship with it. Her drawing may never win a prize or sell, but that doesn't matter - her whole day has been one of profound meditation and communion. She really knows that site now.

Why did I subconsciously give the male gender to A and female to B?

>Now it is a truism that when you draw something you really look at it with an intensity that cannot be matched by any other activity.<

Absolutely!!! For an art exam I was once asked to draw a pinecone - amazing! Have you ever <i>really</i> looked at a pinecone - looked at it for maybe 15-20 minutes - drawing its every little detail from all angles? You might not end up with a work of art but you sure do end up with a better understanding of pinecone.

>Why did I subconsciously give the male gender to A and female to B?<

Is this a trick question? :-)

>>Now it is a truism that when you draw something you really look at it with an intensity that cannot be matched by any other activity. You really look at it.

For me, one step further than that is to reach out and touch, really feel the stone. When I go and look at a place, the excitement of reaching a place seen many times in photos makes me immediately grab for the camera as if its going to dissapear any second. I only really feel I've been there and experienced it if I run my hands over a stone or two. I've left sites that I've creeped and crawled over and under to explore every angle but dont feel the same connection with what I've seen because I never stopped and touched it, then its like para-phrasing that book/TV series 'Meetings with Extraordinary Trees', I feel like I've met some extraordinary stones.

I dont think there's anything psychologically complex going on here, its not a stone-lust fetish either, just look at very young children. They look at things that are new to them and immediately are drawn to touch it or even put it in their mouths. I think its a component of 'experiencing' that is weaned out of us by over-mothering!