But you haven't addressed my point, that it seems hypocritical to rely on those who are prepared to put their whims aside and respect the wishes of the people that care for and monitor the site, and so don't walk on it - its their acceptance that they can't do as they please that enables you to do as you please.

Doesn't that make you feel like you're taking the piss a bit? That you're treating yourself as special? That you're telling yourself you're entitled to an experience just because other people are too straight / too silly to grab the chance to do it themselves?